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Part 2: Men… Have you sexually satisfied your women?
March 5th, 2010 by ilabuzz, under Love, Lust. No Comments
How to make us women satified? Some of which I dont really like it but for the sake of reading it why not… Maybe one fine day we are prone to try it out!
First timer will always take a deep breath. It is important that you relax before you start getting intimate with your woman in the bedroom because it is important to take your time right. If you rush through foreplay with your woman then she may feel that you are only interested in making sure that you get what you want and that you aren’t too concerned with making sure that she gets what she wants. Take the time to get to know what she likes and dislikes, and take the time to get her really going. By the way, did I told you that we must be in a clothes so these steps will work out well. Do not simply get naked totally 
1) Kiss all over. Kissing different parts of your woman’s body is a way of praising every inch of her. If you kiss her stomach it is like you are telling her, “I love this stomach, no matter how you might feel about it.” Giving a woman a boost of confidence when it comes to her body is a great way to ensure that she finds more satisfaction in the bedroom, so kiss her all over.
2) Whisper in her ear, but don’t just talk dirty or whisper sweet nothings, alternate back and forth between the two. If you only talk dirty to her then she might start to feel like a piece of meat laying in the bed, and if you only talk sweet to her then she may not get the chance to feel sexy. If you take the time to whisper sweet things in her ear as well as naughty things, then she will feel both loved and sexy.
3) Feel her body. Kissing her all over is great, but gently rubbing your hands over her body is sure to ignite all of her nerve endings which will heighten her pleasure in the end. You can even take this time to tell her what you love about each part of her body. As you move your hands over her hips you can tell her how you love their curve, and as you rub your hands over her arms you can let her know how much you appreciate the chance to be hugged by them.
4) Ignore your urge to go straight for the hot spots. Going straight for her breasts or for the space between her legs doesn’t allow her the opportunity to sufficiently warm up. If you go for these hot spots too soon you might not get the reaction that you were hoping for because her body hasn’t been warmed up properly so she may feel more of a tickle rather than a sensual touch.
5) Undress her slowly. If you take the time to undress her slowly you are giving her the chance to anticipate what is coming and that will only make her body more sensitive to the touch. Don’t think of undressing her as a task that has to be done all at once, you could take time after removing an article of clothing to pay special attention to the newly nude area of the body.
6) Choose light and gentle over rough and fast. You’re not trying to win a gold medal in how fast you can get it done and how many bruises you can leave along the way. Going fast and playing rough all the time will only leave her feeling like she is simply there for your pleasure. There may be occasions when she prefers rough and fast, but she will let you know when those occasions are, so stick to light and gentle unless she tells you otherwise.
7) Do unto her as you want her to do onto you. If you expect her to go downtown then you better be willing to go downtown on her. Expecting her to do more than you expect from yourself comes off as both lazy and selfish, two things which are sure to kill your sex life quickly.
Avoid spending too much time in one spot. You might get excited when you discover a spot on her body that makes her squirm when you kiss it, but make sure that you don’t get so excited about it that you forget the rest of her body. Lingering too long on one part of her body will leave her bored and might even leave that part of her body numb, rendering it useless for the rest of the session.
P/S: Fear not the KY? Don’t be afraid of using lubricant when it comes to making the transition from foreplay to sex. Having to use lubricant doesn’t mean that you didn’t turn her on, it simply means that you want to ensure that she is comfortable while you are making love. Till then happy trying Have a great weekend folks!
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Women… are you satisfied sexually?
March 4th, 2010 by ilabuzz, under Love, Lust. No Comments
Morning all. How are you today? Hope everything is fine. I want to talk about sexually satisfied.
As a woman, it is very difficult for a man to know whether you are sexually satisfied or have reached your climax. But for man, it can easily be seen and be on top of the game. So man how are you finding out whether your wife and partner is sexually satisfied.
Step 1: Express your needs and sexual desires to your partner, and be specific. Tell your partner what you like and what you don’t like in a nice way that won’t offend him. Must tell and man must ask whether ok or not. Dont just “suka syok sendiri” and the wife not satisfied and even worst feel the pain
Step 2: Listen to your partner’s wants and needs in the bedroom, and consider what she has to say without getting defensive. Listen people… must listen and listen
Step 3: We, women must get rid of the stress. Please don’t think about your laundry or your kids or your parents and anything else but make your self available sensually. Must get rid of the stress and chaos in your life so that you’re more emotionally available and happy. If you’re less stressed, you’ll have more motivation and confidence in the bedroom.
Step 4: Work on the emotional connection that you have with your partner. For women especially, the stronger the emotional connection, the more you’ll enjoy having sex with your partner. Men with no exception must also emotionally connected to your woman and not just physically connected.
Step 5: Engage in self stimulation. Knowing how to satisfy yourself will help you to tell your partner what he needs to do to please you. Hmmm…. I wont encourage this as this is part of masturbation but you may need to ask your partner to do it for you alternatively
Step 6: Change up the old routine. Try different positions, experiment with foreplay, wear sexy lingerie, have sex in different rooms of the house or watch an erotic film together. Getting adventurous in the bedroom will make you and your partner more excited to drop your drawers.
P/S: Yes! No 6. Dont just get naked, wear something first and foreplay with that and those. Till then have a good sexual life with your partners! Love you all Muahhhks
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Kama Sutra: Sex Education Verse 2
February 5th, 2010 by ilabuzz, under Lust. No Comments
Ya ya….I will continue… on another weird positioning but rationally should be ok to try. It can be a bit awkward for first timer I guess. It’s call the spoon position Dont laugh but the picture looks very difficult and kinky. BTW, why are we woman have to raise our leg high up…? hahaha
Every couple knows how to assume the spoon: Lie on your side with your guy behind you. Keep both of your torsos in this doze pose and lift your top leg. Have him shift his lower body into a half-kneeling position, entering you from behind.
This passion pose gives you the best of both worlds! The half-catty-style, half-spooning hybrid combines the cozy intimacy of lying side by side with G-spot-rubbing penetration. Nothing beats having him holding you tight while taking you higher. Give him a gentle reminder that both his hands are free, guiding them to caress your curves and stimulate your clitoris. Up his ante by reaching behind, fondling his testicles, and stroking his perinium as he thrusts.
This position I guess will be very good for married people in the 20s and 30s. Coming to your 40s, damn you need a lot of stamina MAN! If want to try, better explore now while young and vibrant
P/S: Happy trying people. If you were to ask me whether sex is important in marriage. YES! As a woman, I feel that as we aged we normally a bit lazy towards having it. But, that is what sharing in marriage is all about, chemistry and spiritually besides a day to day material world. Good Luck Folks!
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Kama Sutra: Sex Education Verse 1
February 3rd, 2010 by ilabuzz, under Lust. No Comments
Just want to get dirty today. Actually it’s part of knowledge for all married people. Have you ever got tired of the position you and your partner are dealing with. Sometimes people said even in sex you have to be creative. I guess most of us like the missionary position. As long as both parties enjoy it why not try something new and more adventurous, right. You all must have known about kama sutra right? Anyone?
Yes, it is The Kama Sutra (Sanskrit: कामसूत्र), (alternative spellings: Kamasutraṃ or simply Kamasutra), is an ancient Indian text widely considered to be the standard work on human sexual behavior in Sanskrit literature written by the Indian scholar Mallanāga Vātsyāyana. A portion of the work consists of practical advice on sex. It is largely in prose, with many inserted anustubh poetry verses. Kāma means sensual or sexual pleasure, and “sūtra” literally means a thread or line that holds things together, and more metaphorically refers to an aphorism (or line, rule, formula), or a collection of such aphorisms in the form of a manual. The modern English word “suture” is derived from the same root.
The Kama Sutra is the oldest and most notable of a group of texts known generically as Kama Shastra (Sanskrit: Kāma Śāstra). Traditionally, the first transmission of Kama Shastra or “Discipline of Kama” is attributed to Nandi the sacred bull, Shiva’s doorkeeper, who was moved to sacred utterance by overhearing the lovemaking of the god and his wife Parvati and later recorded his utterances for the benefit of mankind. Hahaha that’s just the juice of it!
OK I know… bla bla bla. Let me get it straight and share one of many positions in Kama Sutra so called “Tantric Sex Positions”. This is one of many would maybe love it!
Instruction: Sit your man down with his legs crossed. Facing him, straddle his legs and lower yourself into his lap — without him penetrating you. Wrap your legs around either side of his torso, so they’re hugging his buttocks. Then, as you hold each other’s arms or lower backs tightly, he enters you. Start to slowly rock back and forth together, increasing your speed as you come closer to climaxing.
Like the standard missionary position, this takes eye contact and body-to-body closeness to the max but adds a passion perk. The comfy upright pose encourages equal control over the speed and timing of his thrusting, allowing for a gradual buildup of pleasure for both partners. Plus, your clitoris is at an easy-to-reach angle, allowing him to stroke your love button without interrupting the hot-and-heavy action. That’s the description.
P/S: Happy trying you great couple people. Enjoy them with your love ones. If you have any further request, I will show more in the next sharing
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Penis?
December 4th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Lust. 3 Comments
By the way, please don’t complain about our blog so to speak. It’s a real thing that we discussed and it’s an adult conversation. Hope we are all adults to that extend. Got a message from my Ex yesterday night saying our son will be going for circumcise in 2 weeks time. Was shocked at first, how come so sudden and I wasn’t told. He’s still small, 6 years old and whether he has the confident to face it. After doing a lot of thinking, OK you may go ahead as you wish. Being a mom I will pray for his faster recovery. Good Luck to you Danish, my adorable and gorgeous son!
Not that I want to write and share about penis today, but I just remember something that happened a few months back. Receive a call from a girlfriend and we talked very lengthy about her sex life. I asked her whether I can share about this. She said no problem. So thanks honey.
The issue with sexual intercourse is both must be satisfied. Of course, this is not the only thing that we crave for in a marriage but it is very important. Some might say my marriage screwed up because of not having enough sex from the partner. We cant really definite enough in any terms. Enough can be differ from one marriage towards the other. I always use the word marriage because I only pro to sex after a proper marriage and other than that I don’t want to know what happen
Ok where am I? About enough sex hah… Is 2 times a day enough? With kids around and hectic workload, is daily sex enough for us? Thus, I always tell my friends, enough is when you communicate to your partner what enough is all about. And both partner must come to a mutual agreement point. Enough is one thing and the most important is the passionate that both of you are creating while having it. So now I call it making love. Once the passionate is there, let me tell you… haha as if you all don’t know, the sex life can bring you to places like Hong Kong, Disneyland hahaha. I rather be in Paris or Holland for a passionate and romantic ones
So what about this friend of mine and her husband penis. This is the case. We always want the frequency, the sensual and the passionate, so we must work them out well to reach the best climax or orgasm, another word THE SATISFACTION in bed or everywhere else.
The story went like this. He has a small penis and it’s very difficult to get harden… don’t laugh. And very difficult for her to be on top because it is small and not harden. I was thinking how the hell am I going to help you on this my friend? So I did some research for her that it’s ok to marry a small penis guy and not so harden, but please talk it thru and find ways that can satisfy both of you. So that end of the day, both of you are happy sexually. And please DO NOT play the blaming game! Please…
For lots of guys, they are shameful of their small penis. It makes them feel so bad, that they will literally buy any penis enlargement products that claim to be effective. They probably do not realize it, but there’s no magic solution to male enhancement. If you are a small man, what you really need is a backup plan to satisfy your wife or partner in sex! Read on as we reveal few tested methods on how to drive her wild in bed no matter what size you are:
Oral Sex (one of them but if you want further satisfaction and making babies, you need to work harder!)
It’s estimated over 60% of women could not reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. On the other hand, more than 40 % of women climaxed regularly via cunnilingus (source: The Hite Report). Thus, you must become the master of oral pleasure to help her climax. The key is to satisfy her without sexual intercourse. If you do this right, she won’t even mind if you have a small penis plus not that harden one!
Small Penis Sex Position (another method to look and try)
If you have a small penis, your woman probably won’t “feel” you inside her during sex. Damn I can’t feel you. This problem can be corrected via specific sex positions which allow penis to rub against clitoris and G-spots (I haven’t tried this but my friend is working hard for the G-string… hahaha G-spots), to help her orgasm quickly and easily. Following are 2 terrific sex positions for small men:
#1. Let her be the boss: Most women love to be on top. The reason is rather simple: it allows them to control the angle and speed of penetration to maximize sexual pleasure. Additionally, it makes your penis less sensitive and helps you to delay ejaculation.
#2. Modified Missionary Position: When a little creativity, you can add a lot of sexy fun to supposedly-boring missionary position. Here’s how: have her to lie on a table with her buttock resting at the edge. Put a big pillow under her back to lift up the position of buttock. Then, put her legs against your chest as you go inside her from front. This position allows deep penetration and let penis to rub against her G spot for explosive orgasms.
Wallah
P/S: Have a great week ahead. Love you all the readers we know our blog hits almost 200 readers daily but we love to hear your comments too. We are nobody but we can be somebody one day, don’t we? Have a wonderful and passionate sexual life with your love ones!
Take care folks:)
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You Flirt?
November 16th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Lust. 3 Comments
A very lazy day. Didn’t get a chance to sleep at all last night. Am I missing someone… Hmmm I dont think so. It’s just that my mind was somewhere else. Anyways, I managed to upgrade my blackberry to V4.7.0.173 after almost a year having it. No wonder my phone always hang. I didn’t upgrade the “barang lembut” haha the software lah
Went to work, then it rained, then the office blacked out, then whatelse? Good day to start my week hah… Anyhow, I am happy with the cold weather.
I just want to ask everyone of you, why on earth do you flirt. Came across this very interesting article in Time Magazine on why people flirt?
One of the reasons we flirt is because we’re programmed to do it, whether by biology or culture. My god! The biology part has been investigated by any number of researchers. We wink, we blink, we stare… haha. Then it goes this research…. bla…bla… “A lot of people feel flirting is part of the universal language of how we communicate, especially nonverbally,” says Jeffry Simpson, director of the social psychology program at the University of Minnesota. Simpson is currently studying the roles that attraction and flirting play during different times of a woman’s ovulation cycle. Huh I didn’t know that
To all I know… listen to this, the first published guide for how to flirt was written about 2,000 years ago. As dating books go, The Art of Love leaves more recent publications like The Layguide: How to Seduce Women More Beautiful Than You Ever Dreamed Possible No Matter What You Look Like or How Much You Make in its dust. And yes, that’s a real book.
Once we’ve learned the game of maybe, it becomes second nature to us. Long after we need to play it, we’re still in there swinging (so to speak) because we’re better at it than at other games. Flirting sometimes becomes a social fallback position. “We all learn rules for how to behave in certain situations, and this makes it easier for people to know how to act, even when nervous,” says Antonia Abbey, a psychology professor at Wayne State University.
In other words, when in doubt, we flirt. Yup I like it when we doubt, we flirt. We didn’t know the status of our own relationship. Either ways we want to try? Most people who flirt–off-line at least–are not looking for an affair. But one of the things that sets married flirting apart from single flirting is that it has a much greater degree of danger and fantasy to it. The stakes are higher and the risk is greater, even if the likelihood of anything happening is slim.
It is most commonly the case with affairs, therapists say, that people who cheat are not so much dissatisfied with their spouse as with themselves and the way their lives have turned out. There is little that feels more affirming and revitalizing than having someone fall in love with you. (It follows, then, that there’s little that feels less affirming than being cheated on.) Flirting is a decaf affair, a way of feeling more alive, more vital, more desirable without actually endangering the happiness of anyone you love–or the balance of your bank account. So go ahead and flirt, if you can do it responsibly. You might even try it with your spouse.
P/S: I like the last statement… Go ahead and flirt with your spouse. Why not folks! And again flirting is DECAF to affairssss… haha. Thanks to the science of romance!
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Diary-a secret life file
September 28th, 2009 by marcell, under Hate, Hug, Kiss, Love, Lust. No Comments
Dear Diary
Dear Diary,
Today I saw a boy and I wondered if he noticed me,
he took my breath away.
Dear Diary,
I can’t get him off my mind
and it scares me ’cause I’ve never felt this way.
No one in this world knows me better than you do,
so diary I’ll confide in you.
Dear Diary,
Today I saw that boy as he walked by I thought he smiled at me,
and I wondered
does he know what’s in my heart?
I tried to smile, but I could hardly breathe.
Should I tell him how I feel
or would that scare him away?
Diary, tell me what to do,
please tell me what to say.
Dear Diary,
One touch of his hand,
now I can’t wait to see that boy again.
He smiled,
and I thought my heart could fly.
Diary, do you think that we’ll be more than friends?
yeahea yeahea yea oh
I’ve got feeling we’ll be so much more.. than friends.
ooh.. yea yea yea
Don’t get my wrong. It is not written by me. Well, it is a piece of song by Britney Spears. It might what she wrote on her own diary. Who know.
Diary, sound very familiar to you?. I’m talking about your personal diary. I bet you do have it before. Why do need a diary?
Here is what Pink said.
“Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets
‘Cause you’re the only one that I know who’ll keep Them
Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets
I know you’ll keep them, and this is what I’ve Done”
So, clear enough that diary is your personal secret file. A file which mostly contain more on relationship story, relationship problem, love, hate, kiss, hug, and even lust stories. A file contains secret of your life.
Diary where a person voice out her or his feeling. Diary is a place to voice their concern or needs. Sometime, diary will keep the most important evidence because I came across before it.
A friend of mine dropped his diary and I found it. People always say, don’t ever ever read other people stuff. Yup, at first I don’t want to read it. But the diary was opened and shown the pages that caught my eye site. Sorry , I can’t elabotate further because it cause me a big trouble later on. Why? This was happen 10 years ago. So, just keep it as secret and mystery to you.
Diary used to be written in a special book. I think some still keep it that way. But with modern technology, you can write your diary anywhere. However, there is a risk of information leak compare the one written in a book.
Do we really need a diary?
Well, it is up to us. The choice is your hand. The most important how you want to keep it. It contains the secret of your life.
P.S: Wondering. Where did I keep my diary before? Hopefully it won’t fall in the hand of unreponsible person. Gosh, my entire secret will be exposed to the whole world.
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Why on earth you fake your orgasm…
September 2nd, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Lust. No Comments
I am so sleepy today and so damn tired. Maybe not enuf sleep thruout my night last night.
I am ready to share on why do couples fake their orgasm!
1) They do sex for the sake of doing. One party not prepare but the other wants it badly…
2) They are too tired after a very long try but the climax seems not going anywhere
3) One person has already reached his/her climax but the other is still somewhere along that line toot
4) Sex is not in the book anymore
5) Sex is just to please and get sympathize from the partner
6) Sound in the making and the louder the better… so orgasm is part of making a lot of sexy noises
7) What do you think?
Should we make this list into 10 most wanted list why couples fake orgasm?
P/S: Comments please… Should I write about reaching orgasm in my next write? Will see…Talk to you soon ;)
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Orgasm…How to fake it?
August 26th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Lust. 7 Comments
Orgasm
The basics is of course “Yes, yes, yes…harder… harder…dont stop! Gosh… I wont use that word.
In general, a nice couple will say “Take me…Take me”, “I want you more…Take me!”.
Mix it up. This means sometimes you’ll want to slap the pillow then scream, the other times you want to scream first, then slap the pillow. Men and women love variety.
Dont forget to suck your finger too.
Climb on top of him or her: arch your back to a 45-degree angle…ouchhh!
Recite a couple of bad lines from a B-rated blue movie. Sorry It’s X-rated!
In general, make more sound than you can ever think and of course do this with people you love and who loves you.
P/S: Have a great break everyone. And thanks for reading this. Do share your secret to fake orgasm. In the first place why should you fake your orgasm? I will share it later this Friday on why it happens.
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Dreamgirl?
August 14th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Love, Lust. No Comments
I know… I know…I am not your dream girl!
You… !You! and You…! Woman…. never demeans yourself and compare yourself to another woman. Never done that and will never will, promise me. Why should you? It’s a simple way of saying never compare yourself to another woman and definitely never feel threaten by another attractive woman who walks into the room.
Sometimes we women feel so uncomfortable with situation. We tend to portray the unwanted just because you want more attention. For instance, you dont need to expose a lot of skin or feel as if you have to work harder to earn man’s sexual attention. Dont you? I know a woman who shows off layers of clothes covered based on how the other women in the room are dressed. The issue is are we overcompensating ourselves. No need to do that! Period!
Wearing your sexuality on your sleeve isnt advantageous in luring a man. The issue is not about whether you are successful in turning man on; this is N0-No big achievement. Man can get aroused from riding a motorcycle or from sleeping. The issue is not whether you turn man on; it’s whether he stays turned on AFTER he has been satisfied. This is the KEY.
Quality men, actually if they ever existed…haha, are attracted by less, not more! I always like this example. If man sees a pretty secretary wearing her hair in a bun, right there in daylight at the office cubicle, you know that he’s going to start wondering what she looks like with her hair down. If he sees a woman dressed in a way that shows there is something moving behind a sweater, his desire to see is greater…very simple rule
P/S: The “unwrapping of gift” becomes much more stimulating and has to unbutton an item of clothing will turn him on more. Not less! Till then have a great weekend with your love ones. You are great woman all over the world. Sharing from the book that I am reading right now…
