Are you willing to change?
February 8th, 2010 by marcell, under Love. No Comments
Few weeks back, I attended my friend’s weeding. Then , I saw a girl and she looked very familiar. So, I asked my friend; ” Who is that girl?” After my friend told her name, then I remembered her. Gosh, she really changed a lot. I got the chance to meet and ask her about her new look. She told me that she totally changed due to the study, stress and work environment.
That’s bringing me to today’s topic, “Are you willing to change?” Let us focus in the context of relationship.
Let me ask a series of questions, “Do you willing to change for the sake of your relationship? Your partner request? Or you just want to change just to impress your partner?”
I saw a few people are willing to change themselves whether the physical outlook or their behaviour. Physical outlook I meant basically about your weight, your body curve, your hair style, your skin, your face and etc. Behaviour, for example, do be more gentle, get rid smoking, do be a dumber (this things do happen).
But really people this kinds of stuff to please and impress their loved one. That’s love. Love is blind.
I have few fundamental questions beside this changes. Are you happy with the changes? Do you like the new look? Or you do hate it? Or is it really waste of time or money?.
If it is really worth to do it and you are happy, that’s should be okay. But if it is the other way around, you’ll probably suffer. The solution for me so far is to get consensuses or agreement from each party. Important is Win-Win situation whereby both party are happy.
