How are you there? I hope you are in a good shape.  Now, we are stepping in 2010 and I bet some of you have a list of this year resolution. My advice is write it down and stick at any visible place that you can see it everyday. Back to today’s’ topic, trust and respect.

This topic was discussed out during my meeting up with a group of friends.  We were chatting about  marriage life. A lot of questions were brought up but there was a particular question that made our conversation became very hot.

The question: “What are the main factors to build up the relationship in marriage life?”

One of them answered: “Trust & respect”.  She further explained on these two factors.

” Trust, it is the main essence and with that, it act as a foundation in the relationship.  That should be the starting point to build the relationship. No point of having relationship, if you don’t trust each other.

Then, respect.  Having relationship doesn’t mean you have to obstruct freedom of each other.  Respect on their decision. Respect on their freedom.  In relationship, we need our own space. Yup, space to breath. Space to move around. Space to relax the mind.”

I tend to agree with her opinion. Yup, indeed that it is really make a lot of sense.

So, nuture your relationship wth trust and respect