Archive for November, 2009
Life is more meaningful when you have time for your love ones
November 29th, 2009 by marcell, under Hug, Love. No Comments
Last nite, I was thinking to write something about my brother. But in the other thought, let me keep it for next week. Because I want to share a short story. It is really a touching story.
Here is the story
An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,
‘I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage… and that much misery is enough!’
‘Dad, what are you talking about?’ the son screams.
‘We can’t stand the sight of each other any longer,’ the old man says.
‘We’re sick of each other, and I’m sick of talking about this, so you call your sister in Hong Kong and tell her!’
Frantic, the son calls his sister, who explodes on the phone.
‘Like heck they’re getting divorced,’ she shouts, ‘I’ll take care of this.’
She calls Mumbai immediately, and screams at the old man, ‘You are not getting divorced. Don’t do a single thing until I get there. I’m calling my brother back, and we’ll both be there tomorrow. Until then , don’t do a thing, DO YOU HEAR??’ and she hangs up.
The old man hangs up his phone and ! ! turns to his wife. ‘Okay’, he says, ‘It’s all set. They’re both coming for our anniversary and paying their own airfare!!’
Moral of the story
No man / woman is busy in this world all 365 days. The sky is not going to fall down if you take few days LEAVE and meet your dear ones. OFFICE WORK IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE and MONEY MAKING IS NOT EVERYTHING IN LIFE.
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Just want to be happy…
November 25th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hug, Kiss. No Comments
Have you heard Leona Lewis’s latest hits Happy. The lyrics is just so awesome…
That’s exactly what I want to do for today and the rest of my happy day. Before I share the lyrics, I just want you folks to embrace this painting. It is not just a painting but a painting with a story line. I received this from the great friend of mine who always have a positive thought in mind. Thanks Sweetheart 
In the picture, just look at their condition: no place to sleep, still they have made some space for the cat and the dog, water pouring from the roof but still each one of them have a peaceful smile on their faces… Simply amazing! The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect.
HAPPY by LEONA LEWIS
Someone once told me
That you have to choose
What you win or lose
You can’t have everything
Don’t you take chances
You might feel the pain
Don’t you love in vain
Cause love wont set you free
I could stand by the side
And watch this life pass me by
So unhappy but safe as could be
So what if it hurts me
So what if I break down
So what if this world just throws me off the edge
My feet run out of ground
I gotta find my place
I wanna hear my sound
Don’t care about other pain in front of me
Cause I’m just tryna be happy, yeah
Just wanna be happy, yeah
Holding on tightly
Just can’t let it go
Just tryna play my roll
Slowly disappear, oooh
Well all these tears
They feel like they’re the same
Just different faces, different names
Get me outta here
Well I can stand by the side
And watch this life pass me by
Pass me by
So what if it hurts me
So what if i break down
So what if this world just throws me off the edge
My feet run out of ground
I gotta find my place
I wanna hear my sound
Don’t care about other pain in front of me
Cause I’m just tryna be happy
Just wanna be happy
Oooh…
So any turns that i cant see
Ill count a stranger on this road
But don’t say victim
Don’t say anything
So what if it hurts me
So what if i break down
So what if this world just throws me off the edge
My feet run out of ground
I gotta find my place
I wanna hear my sound
Don’t care about all the pain in front of me
Cause I’m just try to be happy
Just wanna be happy
P/S: Again folks, I will be that person who learns to live with things that are less than perfect and still be HAPPY!
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Important Tips About Health & Life
November 23rd, 2009 by marcell, under Love. No Comments
My friend sent me a very interesting article, combination both health & life. Yup, indeed in our life, we need to balance up. In whatever you do, do remember health plays important role. If you are not concern about your health, you are in deep trouble. Do it for sake of yourself plus your loved one.
Health:
- Drink plenty of water.
- Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
- Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
- Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
- Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
- Play more games.
- Read more books than you did in 2008.
- Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
- Sleep for 7 hours.
- Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
Personality:
- Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
- Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
- Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
- Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
- Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
- Dream more while you are awake.
- Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
- Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
- Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
- Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
- No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
- Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
- Smile and laugh more.
- You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
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Happily Married?
November 20th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hug. No Comments
When people want to talk about marriage, I always have this phobia in myself. Maybe I don’t have courage to talk about marriage anymore.
Marriage
All of us who are married know that marriages aren’t always easy. Sure, we all fall in love easily enough, but staying with the same person for a lifetime, that’s a different story. Yet couples who beat the statistics and stay married don’t do it by accident! Women who stay married have learned techniques to preserve their marriages.
Women may attempt to learn these techniques through magazines and talk shows, but the real secrets of happy marriages are rarely found in our celebrity- and entertainment-driven media. They are found each day through the experiences of wives and mothers who figure out how to balance the demands of their lives and forge a great marriage. Lovely in writing than in actual act!
It’s difficult in today’s society to find a place to talk honestly and lovingly about men. Everywhere you look, you see comical images of husbands who bungle their way through relationships, barely managing to remember their children’s names on the way to the couch to grab the remote. Or, you see news show images of violent and aggressive men whose only motive is to suppress females. But you know your husband can do better than that! And you value your relationship enough to see that a great marriage helps each of you to reach your highest potential.
By the way, I’m not out here to save marriages. Mine screwed up big time! But at least we practise one wife at a time hah? These days, marriage isn’t valued enough. Nearly everyday, the newspapers report on a divorce or separation of a celebrity. And it’s all taken in stride. I support marriage, and I support husbands and wives. Marriage isn’t always a smooth ride, but, when you get it right, it’s the best ride of your life.
P/S: Happily married everyone and be a statistics inside happily married ever after… The end!
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A True Birdie Love Story
November 18th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hug, Love. No Comments
This story came to my Inbox today from a good friend. Want to share with you Folks!
LOVING n TOUCHING…
A TRUE AUSSIE LOVE STORY…
About eight years ago a wild Australian Sulphur Crested Cockatoo flew into a car and broke its wing. The motorist took it to the Vet in Nerang , Queensland , who had to amputate the wing. We adopted her – for which we needed a National Parks and Wildlife permit – and kept her in a cage outside where she was often visited by wild Cockatoos. One of the things that impressed us was how she would push lettuce leaves through the bars of the cage, offering food to visitors.
Last Sunday, she again had a visitor. As usual he spent a lot of time sitting on the cage with a tamper proof latch.
There was a lot of talking and grooming.
A bloke has to look presentable when courting a bird!
Things got interesting when he approached the front door. . .
The clever fellow figured out how to undo the tamper proof latch!
He opened the door for a lot of mutual grooming and food sharing…
Oooh that’s nice! Scratch a bit more on that side, dear…He was not shy to get into the cage and would go in and out a number of times.
They mated! We are looking forward to beautiful baby cockatoos. Will keep you posted.
Later on, the whole extended family came visiting but the special mate was back every day so far. We leave the door open during the day but if we forget, it doesn’t matter – cockatoos have intelligence that rival primates. Because she has only one wing, she stays inside or just sits on top. Guess what happened next…
The Babies
At first it seemed as though he was annoyed because she did not fly off with him and he would squawk a lot. He soon came to understand that she could not fly so he just stayed. However, she was no longer returning to her cage. The two of them would stay in the trees in our garden and because the yard is well fenced, they were safe from dogs but the neighbor’s cat is not kept indoors at night and we often have to chase it away. Chances are the cat would come off second best in a confrontation with a Cockatoo but at night cats remain a danger because they could stalk a sleeping bird on the ground.
Cockatoos make their nests in hollow logs but we noticed the male hard at work digging a hole under a clump of Lilly Pilly trees. We put down a hollow log for them but they just ignored us. The nest he dug was a hole with a short tunnel leading off to where she laid her eggs. Once there were eggs in the nest, the male became extremely aggressive.. You better not get near the nest or he will take chunks of flesh from your foot. It was difficult to take these pictures because I literally had to steal them while running away from the male.
We kept a vigil to see how things were progressing. They took turns incubating the eggs and covering the tunnel. After about three weeks, the eggs hatched. Have a careful look at this picture and try to spot the bit of yellow fluff. Whenever Mum & Dad Cockatoo leave the nest, we try to get a look but you have to do it while running because Dad Cockatoo is chasing you! Second lap running around the Lilly Pilly trees! Well l, I hope his mother thinks he is pretty and eventually I might think so too but at the moment, both of them just look like pink balls with a bit of yellow fluff. So lovely that they managed to take care of each other
So lovely as lovely as it can be… have a great week ahead to all of us!
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You Flirt?
November 16th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Lust. 3 Comments
A very lazy day. Didn’t get a chance to sleep at all last night. Am I missing someone… Hmmm I dont think so. It’s just that my mind was somewhere else. Anyways, I managed to upgrade my blackberry to V4.7.0.173 after almost a year having it. No wonder my phone always hang. I didn’t upgrade the “barang lembut” haha the software lah
Went to work, then it rained, then the office blacked out, then whatelse? Good day to start my week hah… Anyhow, I am happy with the cold weather.
I just want to ask everyone of you, why on earth do you flirt. Came across this very interesting article in Time Magazine on why people flirt?
One of the reasons we flirt is because we’re programmed to do it, whether by biology or culture. My god! The biology part has been investigated by any number of researchers. We wink, we blink, we stare… haha. Then it goes this research…. bla…bla… “A lot of people feel flirting is part of the universal language of how we communicate, especially nonverbally,” says Jeffry Simpson, director of the social psychology program at the University of Minnesota. Simpson is currently studying the roles that attraction and flirting play during different times of a woman’s ovulation cycle. Huh I didn’t know that
To all I know… listen to this, the first published guide for how to flirt was written about 2,000 years ago. As dating books go, The Art of Love leaves more recent publications like The Layguide: How to Seduce Women More Beautiful Than You Ever Dreamed Possible No Matter What You Look Like or How Much You Make in its dust. And yes, that’s a real book.
Once we’ve learned the game of maybe, it becomes second nature to us. Long after we need to play it, we’re still in there swinging (so to speak) because we’re better at it than at other games. Flirting sometimes becomes a social fallback position. “We all learn rules for how to behave in certain situations, and this makes it easier for people to know how to act, even when nervous,” says Antonia Abbey, a psychology professor at Wayne State University.
In other words, when in doubt, we flirt. Yup I like it when we doubt, we flirt. We didn’t know the status of our own relationship. Either ways we want to try? Most people who flirt–off-line at least–are not looking for an affair. But one of the things that sets married flirting apart from single flirting is that it has a much greater degree of danger and fantasy to it. The stakes are higher and the risk is greater, even if the likelihood of anything happening is slim.
It is most commonly the case with affairs, therapists say, that people who cheat are not so much dissatisfied with their spouse as with themselves and the way their lives have turned out. There is little that feels more affirming and revitalizing than having someone fall in love with you. (It follows, then, that there’s little that feels less affirming than being cheated on.) Flirting is a decaf affair, a way of feeling more alive, more vital, more desirable without actually endangering the happiness of anyone you love–or the balance of your bank account. So go ahead and flirt, if you can do it responsibly. You might even try it with your spouse.
P/S: I like the last statement… Go ahead and flirt with your spouse. Why not folks! And again flirting is DECAF to affairssss… haha. Thanks to the science of romance!
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Cancerian…
November 13th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hug, Love. No Comments
A very good morning to You, You and You!
I wont talk about cancer disease laaa for today. But its on zodiac sign being a cancerian: birthdate June 22 – July 22. Lately, I came across a lot of men in my life with this sign CANCER – CRAB symbol. What a crap! hahaha I just realize most of them carry the same attitudes and traits. Might be that the reading for this sign is completely true for all of Cancerian Men.
I am a LEO by the way. And when I do this reading it is just for fun and nothing else. Let me share that with you all CANCER folks!
Cancer Man
A Cancer man will come across as an extremely shy person (sure is), who speaks less and minds his own business (is it). He is not one of those who tell everything about themselves in the first meeting itself (correct). In fact, it will take a large number of meetings to get even a little close to him. Cancerian male may seem to a different person every time you meet him. He may be nervous and fickle one moment; extremely confident the second minute and too shy the very next. His frown can easily turn, first, into smile and then, into a laugh (as if).
A Cancerian guy may get sad and melancholic at times and then, you will feel like putting your arms around him and comforting him (sure). Then, suddenly his wistfulness will vanish and he will be sparkling with wit and humor. He is a true romantic and sees fairytale dreams frequently. However, he is as close to reality as anyone can be. Baffled? Don’t worry, it will take some time, but you will start understanding your Cancerian man slowly and gradually. The changes in him do not mean a changing personality like the Geminis.
It is just a change of moods and he will soon be his usual self again. The basic characteristics profile will, however, remain the same. Just like a crab, he retreats into a shell when his emotions are hurt (right). The shell is his haven and he will remain there till he is ready to face the world again. Cancerian men may look harsh and distant at times, but inside they are very gentle, kind and affectionate (right). Rudeness is not one of their personality traits (very true). It just acts a cover to hide their true, vulnerable feelings.
A Cancer man needs to feel secured of your love every now and then, so don’t forget to say ‘I Love You’ everyday (very very true but not fair statement). The same goes for money too, debt makes him uneasy. He is the one who always pays his bills on time and he likes saving more than spending (no comment). He is not stingy, but he is also not extravagant. However, a Cancerian male won’t sacrifice his taste and style in the name of economy. Economy for him means getting the worth of money he spent. Quality plays the utmost importance as far as he is concerned.
A Cancer guy is very conscious of his looks, his house, his car and everything that surrounds him (right). His clothes need to have that perfect cut, his car that perfect shine and his food that perfect taste. He is not one of those wild men who like going against the usual norms, and sophistication is something he can’t live without. There is another thing a Cancer male cannot live without – talking about his Mommy Dearest (I will not argue on this very true to them)! She is most likely to be there in his every second conversation (the truth).
In the other extreme, he will be totally detached from her. However, his relationship with his mother will never be casual and moderate. It has to be either of the two extremes and the first one is the most likely (sure). At the same time, he will be the most important person in his mother’s life (yup). Make sure you pamper him as much and give him as much attention as his mother (yup). Chivalry is in his nature, unless you give him reasons to be otherwise. A Cancerian guy may take sometime to judge you as his probable soul mate.
However, once he is sure, he will shower you with love, care, admiration and gifts (yes). At the same time, you will be expected to meet his standards, which may be quite high. If he has decided you are the one he wants to live his life with, he will pursue you with fierce determination and make you fall in love with him. Now, we talk about the qualities of a Cancerian guy as a father. He will be totally proud of his son and fiercely protective of his daughter. He will be extremely patient with them. With a Cancerian man, there is one thing you and the kids will never be short of – Love (right)!
Home is the keyword for Cancer that governs their love life too. As far as their attractions are concerned, Pisces and Scorpio attract them the most followed by Taurus that go along well with them, also. Aries repel them the most. Still for long term relationships they may also consider Cancer, Leo, Virgo and Capricorn; avoiding Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius by the side, though in the ultimate analysis the question of the best zodiac signs match for Cancer love horoscopes. Cancer are highly home and family oriented people and their definition of love is woven around their homes and their families as well. They are very sentimental, which makes their love more romantic than passionate. Even if they flirt, they will not flirt for sex but for emotions. Even there they will emotionally get attached to the person they are flirting with. Since they get attached fast, they go possessive as well as jealous fast too.
P/S: I find it true statement in many ways after knowing them. Thanks to the reading for guidance And for you women too, who come across these men in your life!
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MAD
November 11th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hate. No Comments
I always get caught up with lyrics and music so to speak.
I feel that some of the lyrics are well written and have a story line that we can connect to our lives.
My especially for this one: Mad by NE-YO really triggers me about life as much as all of us are!
It says when we are fighting neither of us is listening! Just read it between the lines and you know what I mean 
Mad
She’s starin’ at me
I’m sittin’ wonderin’ what she’s thinkin’
Nobody’s talkin’ ’cause talkin’ just turns into screamin’
And now it’s I’m yellin’ over her, she yellin’ over me
All that that means is neither of us is listening
And what’s even worse?
That we don’t even remember why we’re fighting
So both of us are mad for
Nothing, fighting for
Nothin’, crying for
Nothing, whoa
But we won’t let it go for
Nothing, no not for
Nothing, this should be
Nothing to a love like what we got
Oh baby, I know sometimes it gonna rain
But baby, can we make up now?
‘Cause I can’t sleep through the pain
Can’t sleep through the pain
Girl, I don’t wanna go to bed mad at you
And I don’t want you to go to bed mad at me
No, I don’t wanna go to bed mad at you
And I don’t want you to go to bed mad at me
Oh no no no
And it gets me upset
Girl when you’re constantly accusing
Askin’ questions like you already know
We’re fighting this war
Baby when both of us are losing
This ain’t the way that love is supposed to go
Whoa, what happened to workin’ it out?
We’ve fall into this place
Where you ain’t backin’ down and I ain’t backin’ down
So what the hell do we do now?
It’s all for
Nothing, fighting for
Nothing, crying for
Nothing, whoa
But we won’t let it go for
Nothing, no not for
Nothing, this should be
Nothing to a love like what we got
Oh baby, I know sometimes it’s gonna rain
But baby, can we make up now?
‘Cause I can’t sleep through the pain
Can’t sleep through the pain
Girl, I don’t wanna go to bed mad at you
And I don’t want you to go to bed mad at me
No, I don’t wanna go to bed mad at you
And I don’t want you to go to bed mad at me
Oh no no no
Oh, baby this love ain’t gonna be perfect
Perfect, perfect, oh oh
And just how good it’s gonna be
We can fuss and we can fight
Long as everything’s all right between us
Before we go to sleep
Baby, we’re gonna be happy, oh
Baby, I know sometimes it’s gonna rain
But baby, can we make up now?
‘Cause I can’t sleep through the pain
Can’t sleep through the pain
Girl, I don’t wanna go to bed mad at you
And I don’t want you to go to bed mad at me
No, I don’t wanna go to bed mad at you
And I don’t want you to go to bed mad at me
Oh no no no
P/S: It’s simply about life and the story line is as simple as it can be! Till then take care…
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One nothing, Two not yet, Three ok a bit, Four and more merrier
November 9th, 2009 by marcell, under Hug, Love. No Comments
I know what are you are think about. It is not number of children. It is about preparation for my sister in law wedding this coming Saturday. Basically in the kampung, there is sense of harmony and co-operation amongst the people. Although there is a only a few of us, but we have done something marvelous. The installation of the camp for the wedding reception. I bet you are wondering where is the banquet area. Actually, the place is in front of my father in law house. A small compound but it can cater more than 300 people in one time. You don’t believe. Later I will take some of the shot during the wedding day.
So far, we have installed 4 camps site and still we need to install 4 more. Tomorrow we are going to bring in the other camp equipment from my wife’s uncle. But I’m feel glad because at least I can exercise. Somemore much betther compare than the gym one.
Here are some of the shot I taken just now
The camp site at the left hand side
The camp site at my right hand side
My two friends are so busy fxing the gigantic hole
P.S: Really so tired but it is a great experience.
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Love Never Dies!
November 9th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Love. No Comments
True love never dies
This morning was asking me-self about love…
“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishing.”
Someone told me the other day…I have done a grave mistake recently. And at every moment I am repenting it every single second. I love that woman and I said something to her that has broke her completely. Knowing she is hurt… I have lost my appetite, my sleep, my everything. The last time we talked, her last sentence was “The next time you dump someone…..just say to her clearly”. Sometimes I wonder why man behave such a way. They know that they care for the woman. Why can’t they just show it. Just show it before it’s too late!
Love never ends. This is what two person in love always mention. We all are ordinary mortals who are likely to say stupid things at times. I can understand how you feel. But sometimes I can’t control me-self for being stupid, as stupid as a monkey! So what’s left is to…
Now, just apologize, and tell her that you love her, she’ll forgive you. And an advice: think twice before you say anything, the more you love someone, the more likely you’re to be hurt at anything… Just about anytime. And I dedicated this to everyone who used to love me but later has taken it for granted and hurt me!
P/S: Thank you for that wonderful time!
