Archive for August, 2009
What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
August 31st, 2009 by marcell, under Hate. 2 Comments
This morning, I was scrolling down my list of topic to write. Viola, I found one. This might bringing you down to memory lane, bringing you about the past, bringing you the bitterness, bringing you the pain & agony.
Here is the question. What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
Bitter experience can influence ones perception of things. But it’s better to put the former behind us, be honest with your spouse and work things out together. Sometimes, it’s not the person we are with that fails us, it’s just the way we face the skeletons in our closet that might build or break the relationship…Gosh, it is really painful and even to swallow it. It hurts you most.
Some people will say: “forget the past. Nothing u can do about it. Looking forward a fresh relationship”
BUT…..Do you notice that people who don’t seem to forget the past will fail again in the next relationship because they tend to benchmark themselves from previous relationship.
The word BENCHMARK. Yes, as usual. We are human being like to compare and relate to past experiences. That’s why, we never satisfied and we never get what we want in relationship.
What you should do?
I don’t the answer yet and my friends do. Here are their opinions
- I bring hope from past hurts, love from past betrayals and respect from past pain…
- Don’t bring anything…it.s a new playing field..new strategies..past experiences do count..but put them in your pocket…caution though…if you.re not ready to give, don’t receive…
Nevertheless, the answer is lie on you and you have the choice. Choice is your hand NOW whether you make your present relationship miserable or make it become a romantic experience that will last forever.
Me and you do make mistake before. People always say: ” Learn from mistakes”. So learn from its.
Have you heard the phrase ” Slap me thrice and hand me to me mother to blimey to god’s bucket?” Just got yesterday while watching Pirates of the Caribbean: At World’s End.
Meaning?…..Arggggggggggggggghh….WAKE UP. DON’T MAKE ME TO SLAP TO BACK (Hihihi..my own version)
Continue….FORGET ABOUT THE PAST. NOTHING THAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT.
FOCUS ON CURRENT RELATIONSHIP. MOVE YOUR BUTT NOW.
If you are in agony, find the cure
If you are in bad mood, change the mood
If your relationship is chaos, improve it & find the solution
Buy flowers, buy romantic dinner. Go for holiday, get a nice dress. Anything that make your relationship to cheer up.
What is the SECRET? Do anything together, decide together, enjoy and happy together.
Hope you get the message today. So, AGAIN forget about the past. Make your relationship become a loving and happy chapter in your life.
P.S: My friend quoted this phrase early this morning: “Words of love-Forgive me if I’m not perfect.”
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What you really want?
August 28th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Love. No Comments
Can I not continue on Wednesday’s sharing first… I want to write something on the icing.
I should have begun that topic with this first: “Sex is like a small business. You gotta watch over it!”
What men look for are…appearance, chemistry, and the way a woman carries herself?” Am I right, all men out there…;)
Ever wonder why you see a gorgeous guy marry the girl-next-door? To your eye she looks plain, but to his eyes she’s a “natural beauty”.
When he goes to bed with her, he’s happier than the fat rat in a cheese factory, right!. And happiness is the most crucial sensually.
Besides, there 2 things a woman does to encourage a man to fall madly in love after he is attracted to her.
First, she appeals in his imagination, sexually. Second, she waits a little while before consummating the relationship, sexually.
And I think all women should perceive the same in this intellectual sex - thingy.
P/S: Till then, watch out why couples fake their orgasms in the next outlet…haha
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Orgasm…How to fake it?
August 26th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Lust. 7 Comments
Orgasm
The basics is of course “Yes, yes, yes…harder… harder…dont stop! Gosh… I wont use that word.
In general, a nice couple will say “Take me…Take me”, “I want you more…Take me!”.
Mix it up. This means sometimes you’ll want to slap the pillow then scream, the other times you want to scream first, then slap the pillow. Men and women love variety.
Dont forget to suck your finger too.
Climb on top of him or her: arch your back to a 45-degree angle…ouchhh!
Recite a couple of bad lines from a B-rated blue movie. Sorry It’s X-rated!
In general, make more sound than you can ever think and of course do this with people you love and who loves you.
P/S: Have a great break everyone. And thanks for reading this. Do share your secret to fake orgasm. In the first place why should you fake your orgasm? I will share it later this Friday on why it happens.
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Wrong number
August 24th, 2009 by marcell, under Hate. No Comments
Few day ago, I received a call from a lady in the middle of the night. In a sudden, she screamed and yelled at me. Then she calmed down and said (with a sad tome); “Why you hurt me? Why you do it to me? What’s wrong? You don’t love me anymore?. Why should you make me suffer? Why you so mean to me? You are the one who said that you’ll be there with me whenever I have a problem. But now, you seem to lie to me.You broke your own promise.” She immediately bust and I was about to say something, she hanged up the phone. I have no clue who call me. I even tried to call back but no answer at all (I hope she will be fine)
Another incident and just happened two months ago at the shopping complex. These time I received a call from another lady. I immediately picked the call (my wife already told me earlier on that she will call me later). She immediately asked me; “Ayang kat mana ni, lenguh tangan I ni. Banyak betul barang.” (Translate: Dear, where are you? My hand is very tired. Too many things.”). I reply her back & told her that I will wait her at the counter.She said “Ok, I will wait you there.” Then, I saw my wife at the counter and immediately ask her.”Just now, you call me and you said there are a lot of stuffs. Now, I didn’t see any.” My wife reply me back: What stuffs? I didn’t buy anything. Opss… I did it again (Britney Spears)….Wrong number AGAIN
Gosh, these are not the only call I received so far. I have been received a lot especially from ladies AGAIN.
Just wonder, what happen if the call been picked by your wife? Me, I’ll be in deep sh** and be prepare with World War 3. A long list of questions come out from her mouth. “Who is she? Why she call you? What is your relationship with her? Are you looking for another woman? Do you feel bored with me already?”
Fuh, you can’t really answers all her questions. Even you can answer it , she’ll never satisfy with your answer.
Lady, this incident also happen to you. Imaging your husband or fiance or boyfriend question you about these, you also in deep trouble too. For sure, you don’t want this thing happen to you.
There are several tips that you can follow;
- Before you pick up the call, check the phone number first.
- If the caller keep on calling you, use sms (short messaging system) to reply back. Ask the caller back.
- You can bare the number. In telco terms, it called call baring. If you have no idea how to do it, please call your telco company to help you out.
- This is the last resort (hopefully not) if you receive a lot of anonymous call (It do happen and something it is intentionally). You have to say bye bye to your old hand phone number.
P.S: AGAIN….I receive a call from anyomous person. The message: “I know what you did last…..”
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Sacrifices…
August 21st, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Kiss, Love. No Comments
Sacrifice
Peeps can I just throw in a quotation for today… I got this from my Inbox this morning.
It’s for All of you out there…And it says,
‘Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.
If you give her sperm, she’ll give you a baby.
If you give her a house, she’ll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she’ll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she’ll give you her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.
So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.’
Yup you may elaborate the quote at your own cost…Have a great day ahead!
P/S: To all Muslim Friends all around the world…happy fasting month 
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Can you keep a secret? Sssssshhhhhh…..
August 19th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hug. No Comments
Sshh..can you keep a secret
Can you? I can but at times I just can’t. I can’t see a person suffer because of me keeping it. Sometimes my heart is itchy-ing enough just want to tell him or her. Ok now I want to make it public…haha my best friend asked me to keep his secret for a very long time now. He has an affair in office with his team mate. And he wants me to keep it from his BELOVED wife! Sigh…
Has anyone ever asked you, “Can you keep a secret?” What do those words do to you? You may lean forward and prick up your ears. Your heart may beat a little faster. What you are about to hear is meant for your ears alone.
Gossip? Maybe.
“Sure,” you answer eagerly. “No problem.”
Really? As soon as you hear the juicy story, you immediately consider who else might want to hear it. You could be the first to tell. Then, it could become a problem.
What is the real question behind, “Can you keep a secret?” What you are being asked is, “Can I trust you?”
What’s up for grabs could be either a bit of fascinating news or a piece of useless gossip. Or it could be that someone is entrusting his or her heart and feelings to you.
Are you worthy of the other person’s trust? Can you keep a secret—really?
“Tell your own story to your neighbors and friends if you like, but don’t share the story of anyone else. It will get back to that person, then that person will complain about you, and your name will be mud!”
What is it about secrets that makes them powerful enough to give us a bad reputation if we reveal them?
When someone confides a secret to you, you are undertaking a test. Your compassion, endurance and trustworthiness—your overall character—are being tested. It’s a major exam—in three parts.
1) You are expressing compassion. At the moment you’re told someone’s secret, you are being given the power to hurt another person—the confider, the person(s) the secret is about or the person you might choose to tell
2) You are demonstrating endurance. How long can you keep a secret? Endurance tests are no fun. You feel that you may burst.
3) You are displaying trustworthiness. Finally, secrets are powerful because they ultimately reveal you as either unreliable or trustworthy.
It won’t be long before others will view you as a loyal friend, one who can be trusted with those things most precious in their lives.
Will I keep that secret even if I suffered myself being a woman not to tell another woman of her man slept and have fun with another woman… GOSH! Am out of here really! And to see their kids, sometimes I see them in tears!
P/S: Can you keep a secret? Give it a try guys. Till then talk to you soon 
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Love is so powerful
August 17th, 2009 by marcell, under Love. No Comments
Gosh, I have to wake up so early this morning just to catch my flight. While waiting for my flight, I’d like to share something to you. Something that I read last week. I saw the header: “Man weds dying lover. ” You read the first paragraph; ” MY love is only for you”.
Man, really this man love this girl very much even he knew that she will only live for a few month. His love for her really deep like the ocean, high above the cloud and I can’t really express any other words to explain these.
For me, love is so magnificent and so powerful. I can say, love is blind.
Question yourself, ask yourself; How much do you love your partner? How much you really dying for her or for him? How much you really want to quest for everlasting love? How much you will to go, to strive, to win it, to grab it?
My wife always said to me; ” Dear, our life is so short, so enjoy every moment in our relationship. ” I agree with her statement.
Today message is simple. Love is so powerful and there is no doubt about it.
Back to the story of the couple, we do not know what will be going to happen to both of them. Who know, with the purest love and devoting heart of each other, love will cure the cancer.
P.S: Don’ t forget to kiss your loved one and say; “Honey, you’re the most beautiful in my life. I love you”
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Dreamgirl?
August 14th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Love, Lust. No Comments
I know… I know…I am not your dream girl!
You… !You! and You…! Woman…. never demeans yourself and compare yourself to another woman. Never done that and will never will, promise me. Why should you? It’s a simple way of saying never compare yourself to another woman and definitely never feel threaten by another attractive woman who walks into the room.
Sometimes we women feel so uncomfortable with situation. We tend to portray the unwanted just because you want more attention. For instance, you dont need to expose a lot of skin or feel as if you have to work harder to earn man’s sexual attention. Dont you? I know a woman who shows off layers of clothes covered based on how the other women in the room are dressed. The issue is are we overcompensating ourselves. No need to do that! Period!
Wearing your sexuality on your sleeve isnt advantageous in luring a man. The issue is not about whether you are successful in turning man on; this is N0-No big achievement. Man can get aroused from riding a motorcycle or from sleeping. The issue is not whether you turn man on; it’s whether he stays turned on AFTER he has been satisfied. This is the KEY.
Quality men, actually if they ever existed…haha, are attracted by less, not more! I always like this example. If man sees a pretty secretary wearing her hair in a bun, right there in daylight at the office cubicle, you know that he’s going to start wondering what she looks like with her hair down. If he sees a woman dressed in a way that shows there is something moving behind a sweater, his desire to see is greater…very simple rule
P/S: The “unwrapping of gift” becomes much more stimulating and has to unbutton an item of clothing will turn him on more. Not less! Till then have a great weekend with your love ones. You are great woman all over the world. Sharing from the book that I am reading right now…
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Am I an Opportunist Bitch?
August 12th, 2009 by ilabuzz, under Hate, Lust. 2 Comments
Morning All. My prayers to my family members who are positive with H1N1. Get well soon and strictly follow medical instructions.
Man tests the water AGAIN? Sigh…That’s what I said. It’s true though in reality just to see how much he can get away with. And pssst…you also see this behavior in children and even in the behavior of pets. It’s par for the course.
By the way, generally man pulling back just to gain reassurance. No man is going to say, “Honey, I need to know where I stand with you”. God he never said that. Instead, he will pull back to see how you react. When you react emotionally, it gives him a feeling of control. Unless if he can’t predict how you’ll always react, you remain a challenge to him.
Everyone has known a “nice girl”. She is the woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man she barely knows, without him having to invest much in a relationship. She’s a woman who gives blindly because she wants attention so desperately. She’s the woman who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or want because she wants to keep the realtionship at all costs.
Let me tell you this, every woman, at some point, has been there!
P/S: I will write more from my reading thruout this week and next.
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Why people nowadays boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/husband & wife still looking for other partner?
August 10th, 2009 by marcell, under Hate, Love, Lust. No Comments
My friend brought to this question; “Why people nowadays boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/husband & wife still looking for other partner?. The question really grabbed my intention. So, I’d like to share my friends comments and her conversation with her friends on this hot subject.
(L: Lady; G: Guy)
L: they never satisfied, is it?
L: it seem become trend, do not know what is mean? Weird already have pretty wife/good husband still looking for others? Sigh..why?
L: someone just told me it is normal.. sigh..
G: Pretty wife also not enough
L: Ehh..yes…not really pretty wife but good and perfect but still their husband look other women outside.
L: This people just looking for trouble…human being is never satisfied with what they have…they only regret when the person not with them anyone. He/she never realize that fiance/husband/wife/gf bf been taken away and that the new person is simply there to take advantage..Although we really protect it but still happen…so the best way is pray that it doesn’t happen.
L: This people really want to find a mess
L: (Asking the guy) what do u think, if wife not pretty but very nice or the husband not handsome but very nice..but at the end, the husband or wife/gf or bf still got other people ??? sigh~~
L: Correct. Really find trouble. Once the fellow not around, then they will feel regret. It not to blame the guy only but the lady also the same. I don’t support anybody. Just want to share
L: me too.. never gonna support those who think they r really damn smart n easily lies to their pair..
L: Ye lar….now guy and lady cannot be used…never had enough with the one…itch bitch…
G: Hmmm… Maybe we will have to ask why they want to find another, cannot simply blame one people only
L: What? They seemly want to have fun?
G: Find another because for fun? I am never think about that.
L: Until they feel satisfied
G: Until feel satisfied?. You mean….
L: Some of my friends said, they do this just for fun… then when the husband/wife/gf/bf get to know, then we will regret about it
G: Hahaha…… If they still young, they will learn the lesson and maybe lost the best life partner in their life… If they not young anymore.. It called immature….
L: That’s dangerous, L…which man feel satisfied ?
G: Never satisfied? Included you?
L: for me one enough!
L: never in my life dd, never in my dictionary I want to have someone else in my life. I prefer to be separated rather have someone else in my life. hahaha!
Gosh, really a hot topic and until now, this topic still been discussed. I don’t want to elaborate further and the message is very clear. It is up to us to judge it.
My friend’s message: “People hate when this thing happen. Sigh..Sigh…Do think twice before you do so.”
P.S: Thanks Russtey Nicole for allowing me to share this topic. Peace.
