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8 Simple Info On Maintaining Long Distance Relationships.

May 13th, 2009 by marcell, under Love. 3 Comments

Long distance relationship is hard. It’s hard enough to make local relationships work, but having miles, states, and sometimes even an ocean between you makes it even more difficult. Long distance relationship is not easy and requires a strong promise between you and your partner.

Here’re some important tips to share with you for long distance relationship:

1) Always keep your partner informed about your daily activities – even If both of you are distance away, keep your daily life and schedule available for your partner

2) Ask the critical questions at the start, to make sure that you are both clear on the nature of the relationship. These can be hard and out of place questions to ask, but is required for a great relationship to groom.

3) Create the relationship rules and restrictions – It is critical that you and your partner set rules and restrictions to nurture your long distance relationship.

4) If possible select different ways of communication. It’s vital to establish and sustain an emotional connection. Tell each other about your daily activities. Use an online chat prograsm or VoIP for real-time chat, or web cams for that visual interaction. E-mail is great, especially if you have limited budget for long distance calls. Send small gifts or flowers for no reason and not just on a special occasion. In this case, quantity is as important as quality.

5) Visit Regularly – Have plan to visit each other at least once in 3 months, worst case 6 months. It is important to be able to see each other face to face, to have some physical contact with one another.

6) Establish Trust – Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch or for comfort. The only way to make this relationship works is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to live for a considerable amount of time without the desire to be with someone else. Trust is an important thing to maintain in your relationship, even more for a long distance relationship which will require twice as much, because lack of trust will definitely damage a long distance relationship.

7) Never Make Assumptions – Never assume that your long distance partner knows your feelings, you need to share your feelings directly. Assumptions kill many relationships but clear communication assist relationships to succeed.

8) Do things together and defy the distance. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Incorporating other exciting forms of interaction is important. Try to reproduce those things which non long distance couple can do together such as watching a TV or a movie simultaneously.

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Slim Acai  on November 25th, 2009

great post, thanks for sharing :)

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marcell  on December 7th, 2009

You r welcome. Do stay tune for future post

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Philippine Dating  on January 29th, 2010

I really think that being together still matters nd finding time to be with each other is hard but very effective in establishing long distance relationship.

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